One layer of the onion is all gone

Imagine each generation of your family represented by layers of an onion. I know you don’t have a clue of where I’m going with this. Please humor me for a short while I promise you, I’ll make my point, at least I hope to. For months now, I’ve been thinking about writing a blog that metaphorically presents the extended family as an onion, with each generation that still exists as layer of the onion.

I got news this morning that has caused my heart to be heavy. My mother’s baby sister, one of a set of twins, died peacefully in her sleep last night. She was the last in her generation who was born to the union of my maternal grandparents, grandpa and Sweet. If you are a follower of my blog, you may know who grandpa and Sweet are. I wrote about them in a series I did awhile back titled “From what I can remember.”

The last family reunion we had, where representation of all the generations that stemmed from grandpa and Sweet, was in 2019. The total number of generations represented at that wonderful gathering was five. I found myself sitting amongst it all, watching young ones running about my first cousin’s nice property, not knowing who all these kids were. I do remember that family gathering gave me an opportunity to become acquainted with these relatives. I was looking forward to seeing them at the next reunion in 2020, but you know what happened. Covid-19 put a hold on that.

Family reunion 2019. My aunt is the distinguished one to the left, white hair in blue and white top.

Chris and I were preparing to sit down and watch our churches Sunday morning service on YouTube this morning. We’re still staying at home because of covid-19. Our church has become quite skilled at producing and presenting services virtually. Although it is having services where members of the congregation are meeting in person, some of us are still hesitant about returning to the brick-and-mortar location for now. My phone rang. The display indicated that it was my sister. I hesitated to answer the call because I know my sister wouldn’t be calling me at this time on a Sunday morning unless something was wrong. Something in fact was wrong. My aunt, my mother’s baby sister had made her exit to be with her Lord, whom she loves dearly.

News of a loved one dying is difficult to accept, especially in the case of my mother’s sister. I just had a telephone conversation with her two days ago. She had been calling over the last year or so to check up on me. It’s funny how she would begin each conversation with, “I thought I needed to check on the old folks.” I never argued that point with her, since was only sixteen years older than I. We had an exceptionally lengthy conversation, talking about topics that harkened back to when I was a child to today. She sounded very vibrant and mentally sharp as always. She was anxious to attend another family reunion as soon as we could have one without fear of covid-19. I remember getting off the call and thinking how great it will be to see my aunt again.

The next layer in the onion is my generation. I’m seventy-one. I have a cousin who’s a few months older than I. We are the oldest members of this layer. From my last inventory, there are many members to our layer of the onion. I do pray that this layer will be in place for a long, enjoyable time to come.

We need a family reunion. We need the onion to be all in one place at one time. God, please hear my prayer and thank you for this onion.

I’m old and blessed…hope you will be too.

8 thoughts on “One layer of the onion is all gone

  1. catterel October 31, 2021 / 7:23 pm

    I understand very well where you are coming from. I am also now “the matriarch” in our family – a strange feeling.


  2. catterel October 31, 2021 / 7:25 pm

    And I am very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy.


  3. JLem November 1, 2021 / 12:28 pm

    My sincere condolence for your loss. And may your generation, continue to bring good Life for the NextGen, and those to come. Live To Live!


  4. rangewriter November 5, 2021 / 4:08 pm

    I’m so sorry for this loss. It seems we’ve all endured too many difficult losses lately. Maybe that’s just our relative age. I remember a time when I had never been to a funeral and planned to never go to one. I was so niave. I’m glad you had such a wonderful last conversation with your aunt before she passed on.


    • oldandblessed November 5, 2021 / 4:26 pm

      How quickly we become the old folks in our families. Of course,that’s a good thing. I’m waited on hand and foot at familiy nreunions. 😂


      • rangewriter November 5, 2021 / 5:24 pm

        That’s great. You deserve it. And, btw, I love your onion analogy.


  5. JB and CG November 24, 2021 / 1:18 am

    I am the oldest layer too. Thank you so much for visiting A World Apart! I love your blog!


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